I never thought I would be a mother who would be having her children embroider things, or even sew by hand at all until maybe one of my daughters asked to cross-stitch something when they were pre-teens or thereabouts. But, just to keep her hands busy, I started my eldest daughter on VERY simple lacing when she was 3 and she really enjoyed it. She was soon asking to sew, not understanding that lacing was a long way from sewing. And I, admittedly, didn't think that she would be able to grasp anything much closer to actual hand sewing until she was older. But, after much pleading, I gifted her with her very own sewing box at Christmas, which included her first metal needle, some old scraps of fabric, a plastic embroidery hoop, an old pair of embroidery scissors, and left-over thread from my finished stocking projects.
To tell you the truth, I wasn't sure how I was going to slowly approach sewing by hand with her, so I just tried something that I was pretty sure was going to be too hard for her. I simply had her draw a picture on the cloth, and I then showed her how to do a simple back stitch in order to cover over the lines she drew. And, to my utter amazement, she caught on immediately! All I did was thread the needles, tie the knots on the end of the strings, and fixed the occasional mistake where she went through two layers of fabric or got the string in a knot. She did amazingly and actually embroidered the entire picture! I now have it framed on our dining room table, and am so proud! It just goes to show that kids will often catch on much faster than we assume. It never hurts to try, as long as you are willing to step back if it is too early. Who knows... they may surprise you!
Here is Thérèse's embroidery. It is, from L to R, my husband, David (3), Me and Patrick (3 months), and Thérèse (4 1/2). Isn't it great!
-Maria





